Dating

[LesCandy]

Thought I would start something on dating and how do you get back into the groove of things. I'm not looking forward to it and really dont know what to do! Frankly ..I feel Im rambling! This is going to be filed under What the F*uck!

[~~Ree~~]

I think that getting back into the groove of dating is not a simple task. Because usually if you go out on a date with someone one or the other thinks it more than a date. More Like the Hookup. So, I think prior to committing to going out both parties should have a clear understanding or where they both stand with one another.

[LesCandy]

Hi Renee!
Thanks for the tips. My friends tell me to just have fun and dont have expectations. Enjoy the movie, dinner, or what not. I dread the getting to know you questions and small talk lol!

~~Ree~~ said:

I think that getting back into the groove of dating is not a simple task. Because usually if you go out on a date with someone one or the other thinks it more than a date. More Like the Hookup. So, I think prior to committing to going out both parties should have a clear understanding or where they both stand with one another.

[SistersTalk]

Girl, I've been in the dating world for about 5 years now. In that time, I've had a few short-term relationships I thought would become long-term commitments, but for the most part, nothing has really jumped off for me.

In my opinion, it's better to just find a great group of friends and spend time hanging out with them. Just enjoy your me-time for awhile. When you're miserable and depressed, you attract some really horrible dating prospects. When you're enjoying life, you attract some really positive people with potential.

Good luck!

[Coach Sappho]

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[Coach Sappho]

great advice ree. i am wondering what moi's concerns about dating are. moi, would you be willing to say more about your thoughts/feelings on the topic?

barb

~~Ree~~ said:

I think that getting back into the groove of dating is not a simple task. Because usually if you go out on a date with someone one or the other thinks it more than a date. More Like the Hookup. So, I think prior to committing to going out both parties should have a clear understanding or where they both stand with one another.

[Coach Sappho]

what are your concerns?

barb

[Coach Sappho]

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Moi said:

Hi Renee!
Thanks for the tips. My friends tell me to just have fun and dont have expectations. Enjoy the movie, dinner, or what not. I dread the getting to know you questions and small talk lol!

~~Ree~~ said:

I think that getting back into the groove of dating is not a simple task. Because usually if you go out on a date with someone one or the other thinks it more than a date. More Like the Hookup. So, I think prior to committing to going out both parties should have a clear understanding or where they both stand with one another.

[Cheryl]

lol. i know how you feel. i don't look forward to it either, but it's the only way i'm going to find me someone i can cuddle with and sik my pups on just for fun. :p

anyway, i use craigslist and meetupgroup.com. at first, i had my guards up meeting anyone from craigslist... it being the internet and all, but so far, all the people i have met from there are really friendly and are just like me -- non-dangerous, haha. =] heck. i even got my baby brother a used car from there.

goodluck!

[Kristen]

Dating can be fun!!!!! But, different people have a different idea of what "dating" means....... Is it a casual sexual affair? Is it two adults spending time together, getting to know one another?

I have been dating for the past two years, since I became single again, & I have found that when you know which lifestyle best fits yours.....(i.e. casual-sex/dating oppose to getting-to-know-you/dating), searching for the same type of people is the fun part.....then of course the real fun starts when you find those people......


Dating is an experience that can be a growing time! :-)

[LesCandy]

Learning to trust again and creating that mutual bond. I tend to meet the ones with hidden agendas and or its about them!

Coach Sappho said:

what are your concerns?

barb

[Kristen]

The only person you have to trust is yourself. Don't worry about the other person's agenda's & what-not. Be real & expect nothing less from others. I have found that when you "put out there" what it is you're looking for, women tend to "act the part" in order to get what they want from you. Then the real "them" comes out. I hate that, too! So, I totally understand!!!! :-) Happy Hunting..........

[Lorie A. Mazza]

I had personal ads out but they are not working for me , I just don't understand why someone would post a picture of themselves, you meet 'em and find out that that picture that was taken about 10 yrs ago, so why even post a pic if its not up-to-date? I just don't get it so I took the ads out and I am hoping that I would have better luck in this website than the ads.

Lorie
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